Sine Qua Non ([info]tephramancy) wrote,
@ 2004-11-15 16:36:00
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Current mood:honest
Current music:Daft Punk - "Around The World"

168 -> 128
I'm finally doing something I should've done a long time ago, and about a thousand times over. I'm having a proper friendslist cull. I'm starting to realise that I'm being too diplomatic in who I add and who I keep on, and it's boring now. Keeping people on my friendslist because I don't want to reduce my numbers by having them take me off is, quite frankly, silly.

I'm removing people for the following reasons:

1. You've annoyed me somehow, and I can't bring myself to discuss it with you, and I don't think there's enough of a friendship between us to make the effort.
2. You're nice in person, but your journal bores the shit out of me.
3. I like you, but you never post or comment, or you do so incredibly seldom, and when you do, it's nothing I find interesting.
4. You don't connect with me, and I don't know you very well.
5. I plain don't like you, but don't want it to look that way.
6. I want to stop using livejournal as an easy way to communicate with you when I think I should get to know you better in person.
7. I only want to be friends with you for ego reasons, rather than because we actually have anything in common, and I don't actually read your journal.
8. You only want to be friends with me for ego reasons, etc, etc (see point 7).
9. I feel uncomfortable reading about your life, when I get the impression you're keeping me on your list for the same reasons as mentioned in my initial paragraph.
10. I think you only read my journal so you've got something extra to gossip about.

Doesn't necessarily mean I don't like you (although in some cases, it does). Doesn't mean I won't read your journal. And for the eternally paranoid, just because you're still on my list, doesn't mean you don't fall into one of the above categories... just means I have more reasons to keep you on :)



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[info]ninjagirl
2004-11-15 04:51 pm UTC (link)
just a little note to say i'm not surprised, i'm assuming it's because i hardly ever comment and my journal is just sparse posts about porn. i don't know you very well anyway, but i enjoyed my stay :)

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[info]tephramancy
2004-11-15 04:54 pm UTC (link)
Well, quite. And I figure the stuff I post unlocked is more interesting than the locked stuff to people who don't know me too well anyway, so it's not as if you're missing anything ;)

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[info]untermensch
2004-11-15 05:30 pm UTC (link)
Whoah, a guy in my office was playing that exact track 10 minutes ago. Coinkydink!

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[info]tephramancy
2004-11-15 05:32 pm UTC (link)
Hehe :) Damn fine tune it is too!

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[info]tephramancy
2004-11-15 06:46 pm UTC (link)
But you're nice, and your journal is interesting. Duh :)

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[info]jcaswell
2004-11-15 07:06 pm UTC (link)
Me too. One day she'll realise she forgot to delete me yet :)

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[info]tephramancy
2004-11-15 07:07 pm UTC (link)
Silly!

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[info]sqrfruit
2004-11-15 08:51 pm UTC (link)
As am I. I thought for sure I'd fall under numbers 2, 3, and 4.

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[info]gelflyng
2004-11-15 11:48 pm UTC (link)
I think Avalon likes to make people paranoid *g* I like her.

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As you know...
[info]kesstrel
2004-11-15 08:10 pm UTC (link)
..I'm really picky about my friends list, and as a general rule, unless the privilege is shared, I don't give out the privilege.

Sorry hon. But been nice having you on board.

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Re: As you know...
[info]tephramancy
2004-11-15 08:16 pm UTC (link)
Nah, that's perfectly fair!

Hope you're doing well :)

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[info]dj_alexander
2004-11-15 08:34 pm UTC (link)
You've annoyed me somehow, and I can't bring myself to discuss it with you

Look, right... I was on drugs... and I was convinced you wanted to dance to goth music...

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[info]tephramancy
2004-11-15 11:33 pm UTC (link)
You tried to make my dance to "Return"! You must suffer!

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[info]hythloday
2004-11-16 01:53 am UTC (link)
Everyone knows you're trolling. The idea of you noticing that you annoyed someone is just too unbelievable!

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[info]_ladylazarus_
2004-11-15 10:18 pm UTC (link)
ah, i suppose i had it coming--i've been pretty lj post/comment free these days. but see you around nonetheless :)

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[info]tephramancy
2004-11-15 10:46 pm UTC (link)
I'm sure I will - probably at Whitby again, or something :)

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[info]jhg
2004-11-16 09:03 am UTC (link)
Hahahahaaaa!

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[info]dave_over
2004-11-16 06:36 pm UTC (link)
*waves* it's been fun.

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[info]tephramancy
2004-11-16 07:03 pm UTC (link)
Yeah. Kinda wish I'd been able to connect with you a bit better, but I'm finding my list spiralling out of control, and I just can't keep up with everyone anymore, and I feel bad pretending that I can.

*hugs* Hope you're well :)

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[info]reaverbob
2004-11-18 11:33 pm UTC (link)
Heya.

This just reminded me i need to talk to you about Whitby. Is it still cool for me and Chris to stay with you two next Whitby? We can pay up front ofcourse.

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[info]tephramancy
2004-11-18 11:35 pm UTC (link)
We've not found anywhere yet, but I'll let you know when/if we do. We may end up having to piggyback on someone else anyway at this rate :/

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[info]crystalfayre
2004-11-21 06:07 am UTC (link)
It's a well known fact that if you take somebody off their friends list then you declare your undying emnity for them.

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(Anonymous)
2004-11-22 03:45 am UTC (link)
Fuck you.

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[info]tephramancy
2004-11-22 08:16 am UTC (link)
You're welcome :)

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[info]ex_froodtheh193
2004-12-01 03:18 pm UTC (link)
IT'd be more fun to decimate your friends list. delete every tenth person!

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[info]tephramancy
2004-12-01 03:20 pm UTC (link)
I can guarantee I'd only end up taking off the most interesting people, by the law of Sod ;)

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